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Looking for meaningful Love minus the beatings!

Allanya
My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Lecturer
Marital Status
Never married
County/State
Lancashire
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
Hi there, i'm a witty, highly ambitious and educated female. I have a good sense of humour (believe it or not) and know what I want in life. My family means a lot to me and i adore my parents dearly.
I am very sociable and actually do have a good social life, and would prefer if you also have a life; as one thing i cannot handle is a clingy guy. I need to breathe and have my own space; and so should he:) Furthermore, one thing i certainly am is Classy, and by no means a low life tramp lol! Hence, I don't believe in throwing oneself at anyone due to the fact that i do have values and standards:)
I don't smoke and neither take any drugs or intoxicants. I prefer to be sober and have a great conversation with someone and discuss anything from politics, anthropology. ancient history, films to whatever is on the menu:)
I completed my PhD 2 yrs ago and love my role as a University Lecturer: it is challenging yet extremely rewarding. I'm also working for an exciting ground breaking IT company which will bring a new meaning to Collaboration once we go public:)

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What I Am Looking For
I'm looking for a good hearted companion who will treat me with respect and dignity. An individual who will not treat me like his property; as i only belong to Allah and not to any human. I will never accept being bossed around or nagged into doing things, nor harassed by him in terms of what i can and can't do; nor who i can and can't meet or or what i can/can't wear. However, one can always discuss and resolve issues in a civilised way, and certainly not by threats or beatings! That to me is like living under a Dictatorship and not one could consider a real marriage.

This due to the fact that i'm from a Pathan family that loves their women, they are beautiful, intelligent and very independent..where females are not the property of any father or brother or other random male. Therefore, i will never change what i am already used to and live a life of slavery.

Unfortunately, most Muslim males seem to be from this mentioned category; but i pray there might be hope and there is someone who will prove me wrong Inshallah.

Furthermore, really not interested in individuals who follow the backward culture of HONOUR/IZZET and Honour killings - this is for backward barbarians and cave dwelling savages which has no place in Islam. Plus Allah does not care about your pathetic Izzet/honour! This is a suffocating rule which these backward Hamar/Gadday/Donkeys have made.

Plus males pay for weddings not women! This is another backwards Hindu tradition which sadly many cannot move away from.

So if you are single and aren't intimidated by an intelligent and classy female then don't be shy and drop me a line :) (smiles sweetly after her little rant, LOL)

(Please note: not interested in Salafis/Wahabis, Also, No Photo = no discussion, including if I have to request for a photo..I have no time to beg...
Furthermore, definitely not interested in anyone looking for a passport.....Only UK or EU residents thanks.

With no intentions to offend anyone ...mainly based on previous negative experiences i'm not interested in any Asian brothers....

Reverts most welcome - as you don't come with all that horrific cultural baggage a lot of the Easterners have...its like a breath of fresh air :))

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
Afghanistan
Willing to Relocate?
Nationally
I am Looking to Marry
Unsure
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Never married
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Friends
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Lancashire
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.63m (5' 4")
My Build
Athletic
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Doctorate
Subject I Studied
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Work
My Profession
Lecturer
My Job Title
Lecturer & Interface Design & Usability Consultant
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
No
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always